Different But Original

I’ve always been considered and told to my face that I’m weak and not strong... by LOTS of people, especially by some relatives and family friends, sometimes by my closest family and friends (normally by more elderly people). Yes, I was premature. Yes, I was born more than a month early. Yes, I stayed in the hospital for an extra 2 days. Yes, I broke/severely injured my ankle easily. Yes, I wasn’t the “normal” weight for my age until 8th grade. Yes, I’m a small person. Yes, I get sick every season. Yes, i have allergies. Well guess what,

oh fucking well. (Apologies for the language but ya know, emphasis.)

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"At this point of my life, still, I still get called “underweight,” “too thin,” “weak,” and some other comments.”

First off,

You NEVER. again i emphasize, NEVER tell anyone that they’re not strong. NEVER call anyone weak.

At this point of my life, still, I still get called “underweight,” “too thin,” “weak,” and some other comments. It’s absolutely ridiculous that to this date, people say I eat nothing. Here’s a secret, I actually eat, quite a bit. Instead of eating an entire massive enormous meal in 20 minutes, I’ll eat little snacks in between meals to keep myself more full and less hungry, but I do still eat 3 full meals a day. There’s absolutely nothing wrong in that. I got told this just last week, “you have to increase your appetite, you eat too less.” Well actually, I’d rather not eat a heavy meal and then feel as if I can’t walk. I’d much rather eat as much as I can without getting too full. Then would eat in between the meals throughout the day so that I’m not super hungry often. Some people’s metabolism is faster which is why their food gets digested quickly. Just because you are small it doesn’t mean that you’re not getting the right nutrients, it doesn’t mean that you’re lacking in anything, it doesn’t mean anything. Screw people’s words and what they say to you.

Your body is your body, no one has any rights on it other than you. People will keep talking, but do not get bothered because then their goal to bring you down to make them feel superior will be successful. Don't let them. The more you pay attention to them, the more it'll make them feel good. You've been blessed with such a beautiful body, no one has the right to change it or make you feel that you need to change it.

You do you, my love. You’re amazing the way you are. 💛